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« on: December 30, 2009, 02:34:37 PM »

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20333753,00.html

Look - if what she said was true, he PUT A KNIFE TO HER THROAT!!!!  Now it says she "didn't know the consequences of calling 911"  HELLO!!!  Have some SELF RESPECT!  If he put a knife to your throat - GET OUT, STAY OUT and take the kids!!!  If he DIDN'T put a knife to your throat - FESS UP and take the consequences...   

but she HAD to have known what she was in for... everyone else did.  I have to suspect she wanted him for his "bad boy/rich" image - and now she's realizing there was a REASON he has it.  I don't get it at all.  Either ONE of them.  Why would you DATE someone that treated his FIRST wife the way he did - and why would you PULL A KNIFE on the MOTHER of your BABIES!  I think they are BOTH sick.
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« Reply #1 on: December 30, 2009, 02:38:10 PM »

uhh..i have no words. It would be bye bye dh if he ever pulled a knife on me. No way in hell would I let my kids be around that.
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« Reply #2 on: December 30, 2009, 02:40:11 PM »

Seriously - if YOU want to be beat up/killed - okay then - go for it... but you have NEWBORNS!!!  How on EARTH could you let someone that violent be around your KIDS!  Seriously - they deserve each other.  I TOTALLY get it if you have no money - and you have NO WHERE else to go - I get how you would feel stuck - but from what I udnerstand her family is loaded!
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« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2009, 02:46:16 PM »

He said he could have her killed and knew people that could do it.. http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/us_sheen;_ylt=Amx1zSylRijuy4a0F0mlsxPmWMcF

The picture in his mug shot is scary!

She is crazy!! I would hope that she won't go back, but you just never know.. He might have fucked with her head so bad that she doesn't know better or is strong enough..
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« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2009, 02:46:31 PM »

Yeah that's a big mess, first it was he threatened to kill her, then it was he was defending himself because SHE had the knife and now it's he had the knife to her throat. Neither one of them can keep their story straight so it makes me wonder if she started out with it and he got it away from her.
Either way it's scary that they would be acting like that when they have babies in the house!! If you hate each other, get divorced. Don't be pulling knives out. Good grief.
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« Reply #5 on: December 30, 2009, 02:47:29 PM »

Oh but I laughed this morning because I saw the headline that said something like "lawyers say divorce might be an option" MIGHT? ya think??? Should or is would be better choices of words.
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« Reply #6 on: December 30, 2009, 03:02:13 PM »

I'm trying to imagine Paul and I EITHER of us having a knife in an argument.  He kicked the bathroom door five years ago and THAT scared the shit out of me... a KNIFE?  Mark my words - she's going to end up like Nicole Brown Simpson.  Denise Richards tweeted that when she can she's gonna tell EVERYTHING... I'm not a big fan of hers either...  they're all fucked up as far as I'm concerned.... I personally think that CPS should come in and take the kids and say "look - you're living with a man that put a knife to your throat... it's him or the kids - but not both!"
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« Reply #7 on: December 30, 2009, 03:43:58 PM »

Apparently shes no angel. She knew better...

Since I looooove knives, I'd kill the son of a bitch if he pulled it on me.

the whole thing sounds messed up
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« Reply #8 on: December 30, 2009, 04:26:56 PM »

Wow. I know (from writing papers on it) that a lot of women recant their stories after the fact. They don't realize the severity of the law and don't want their husbands to go to jail. As to why a woman wouldn't want someone that beats/threatens her to go to jail, I have no clue. He might meet his match there.
Anyways, it's really common for this to happen.
As far as what I think she's a fucking idiot. You have twin boys, aside from the obvious CHOOSE THEM OVER CHARLIE, if he pulls this shit again, and again (which another statistic says it will happen again) she's showing her boys that it's okay to treat women that way.
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« Reply #9 on: December 30, 2009, 04:28:01 PM »

And her familyu has the money to support her and help her... THAT is what I don't get.  I get if you have nowhere to go... but that's NOT THE CASE!!!  She's just an IDIOT.
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« Reply #10 on: December 30, 2009, 04:39:26 PM »

if that is true and he did pull a knife on her shes effin stupid for wanting him back, no effing way i would step foot back into a realationship with anyone who ever did that to me!
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« Reply #11 on: December 30, 2009, 07:27:32 PM »

Moron with a capital "M".
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« Reply #12 on: January 02, 2010, 01:11:02 AM »

my god is all i have to say.......
I have to agree with you all, why allow yourself to be put through that!??
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« Reply #13 on: January 02, 2010, 10:16:06 AM »

Guess Denise Richards was telling the truth. Why the hell would anyone want to be with him?? Unless they were a lot like him..
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« Reply #14 on: January 04, 2010, 06:31:43 AM »

Crazy!! Why would you stay with such an abusive man?
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« Reply #15 on: January 04, 2010, 02:01:47 PM »

you know, I can totally see why a woman would stay with an abuser. If he says he loves you, then beats the shit out of you, think what he might do if you left and he was really pissed off.

A lot of abused woman think that it's their fault and/or that they can "fix" the man. They think that if they just do everything "just right" then it will be better. The cycle of abuse is tension building, acting out, honeymoon phase, then a period of calm. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cycle_of_abuse

Chances are the reason she is recanting is because he has told her that he is so sorry and will do anything to keep her from leaving (honeymoon phase). Who knows how long the calm period will last, but I'd bet money that we will hear of abuse again at some point.
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« Reply #16 on: January 04, 2010, 02:30:04 PM »

I have told DH that if he ever hits me,pulls a weapon on me...we are DONE!  NO second chances because if they do it once, it's a pretty good bet that they'll do it again.
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« Reply #17 on: January 04, 2010, 02:39:37 PM »

Personally I have only had one man ever get physical with me...he was drunk & hit me as hard as he could and slammed me up against the wall (knocking every picture I had off the wall I hit so hard). He was a big guy too (Amber knows) 6'5 probably 250 pounds. Anyways as soon as I could I packed his shit up and kicked him out.

I am different though I have my own home & wasnt worried about where I would go. I think a lot of women stay because they feel they have no where to go or have little kids. Very sad.
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« Reply #18 on: January 05, 2010, 11:53:37 AM »

I have been in an abusive relationship and I get it..
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« Reply #19 on: January 05, 2010, 02:22:45 PM »

I get it if you don't have anywhere to go - but that's not the case with this woman.  Her family has MONEY and she has a place to go... she's staying because she WANTS TO!  THAT I don't get.
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« Reply #20 on: January 05, 2010, 02:33:22 PM »

I had a place to go to.. It's more than that and hard to explain..
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« Reply #21 on: January 05, 2010, 02:44:42 PM »

yeah - I gotta say - when someone puts a knife to your throat and you have BABIES - I just don't get it - but I've never been in that situation...
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« Reply #22 on: January 05, 2010, 03:43:42 PM »

I didn't have babies, but I had a knife to my throat.. I stayed for a little while longer.. it was hard to leave, but did it.. eventually.. again, really hard to explain the thought process in that situation..
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« Reply #23 on: January 05, 2010, 06:45:04 PM »

I have been there as well but I had no kids at the time. It's because of what I have been through that I KNOW I would never let K be around ANY abuse.
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« Reply #24 on: January 06, 2010, 08:10:21 AM »

God you guys - I am so sorry... the worst I ever had was my ex DH held me up against a wall...
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