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« on: July 29, 2010, 11:05:53 AM »

Ok, I was so unsure of where to put this... I didn't know if it should go under Preg or General. Well, I placed it here and it should have went elsewhere, please feel free to move it. My feelings won't be hurt if I get a little spank  wink

Did any of you do anything different or fun to tell your family the sex of your baby? Or anything interesting on telling them you were preg?

I would love to be able to wait until I knew the sex to tell my family, but that might be a little hard. I also would like to have cake with the color blue or pink on the inside depneding on the sex of the baby.
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« Reply #1 on: July 29, 2010, 11:11:41 AM »

I put it on fb for everyone else. Most of my family friends found out I was pregnant because I was in the hospital from the ohss.

As for Gender I just told them it was 2 boys.

Yeah I wasn't very fun.

We were going to get the poppa burger for our dads but the bitch nurse told my parents and a friend even though I said we haven't told them its a surprise.
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« Reply #2 on: July 29, 2010, 11:36:39 AM »

For Jackson, our family wasn't too surprised since they all knew we were trying and doing all the infertility stuff. But, we bought each grandparent a little gift to tell them.

For Eva, nobody even knew we were trying, so they were all pretty much in shock. It was fun! I got Jackson a shirt that said "I'm a big brother!" and put it on him and drove him around to surprise the grandparents. It was funny though because they didn't notice his shirt at first and I had to point it out  lol

For the genders, we just told everyone. Nothing special.
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« Reply #3 on: July 29, 2010, 11:42:59 AM »

When I found out I was pg with Jake I ordered a little AUBURN onesie.  Once it arrived I brought it to my parents and asked them if they knew anyone that could use it.  Of course they said no - so I said - good... then I can use if for the baby I'm carrying.   hurray  DH told his parents and I don't think it was anything exciting.  Once we knew he was a boy we just told them.

We didn;t find out Cade's sex until he was born - so they found out when we did  wink  My pregnancy with him was was a big suprose to everyone, including me!!  We supposed to help my parents move pavers so whe we got to their house I told them I couldn't help - it might hurt the baby.  My mom said not to worry Jake would be fine - I told her, not him... the one in my belly. 
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« Reply #4 on: July 29, 2010, 11:47:06 AM »

Sean- I told my mom that I needed to talk to her. Then handed her the pregnancy test. Then just told everyone else. I told everyone earlier than I planned b/c we moved right after I found out. I didn't want to have to come up with an excuse for not lifting heavy stuff.

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With both, we just told everyone the sex.
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« Reply #5 on: July 29, 2010, 12:24:19 PM »

Nope, we just called everyone and told them.    Then everyone knew we were having an amnio, and the doctor gave me a guess at the amnio, then the results confirmed it.  We told everyone after the amnio. 
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« Reply #6 on: July 29, 2010, 12:33:37 PM »

Andrew was a big surprise. I bought some new Hallmark ornaments for my Christmas tree (new home, Noah's Ark (our nursery theme) and a kangaroo mom-to-be) and during a visit, showed them to my mom. The new home one made sense to her, since we'd just moved. She had an odd look on her face with the Noah's Ark ornament only because she didn't know the significance. The writing on the pregnant kangaroo was tiny, so at first she looked really confused. Then she saw the writing. Saying she was shocked is an extreme understatement.

With Steven's parents, we told his mom the same night as my mom. She was beyond ecstatic and we all decided to surprise his dad for Christmas. We wrapped up "I Love Grandma" and "I Love Grandpa" booties and my FIL opened them on Christmas Eve. FIL immediately looked to my then-SIL, who already had my nephew & niece. She said, "Don't look at me." So he turns to us, looking puzzled and I said, "You're going to be a grandpa again." He cried, he was so happy.

With Andrew's gender...we showed the u/s tape to everyone at my birthday party, which was the same day as my u/s...and was also my actual birthday.

With Annemarie, we had Andrew tell everyone, as he was talking fairly well. For her gender, my mom went with us to the u/s and then we told in-laws in person and they were so happy!

With Olivia, we found out the day before Andrew's 3rd birthday party. I bought money holder cards and tucked some $ into each of them. We then gave them to my mom & in-laws after Andrew's party, but while EVERYONE was still there. My MIL knew what it was before she even opened the envelope and started cheering. My mom started crying and then locked herself in my kids' bathroom...LOL My pregnancy & delivery with Annemarie were high risk and I'd been advised not to get pregnant again. So my mom's initial reaction was fear & worry about my health. Once she calmed down, she was so happy.

With Olivia's gender, my mom went with us again to the u/s and we told my in-laws.

Fun times!
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« Reply #7 on: July 29, 2010, 12:40:25 PM »

Nope. Pregnancy for me was never a happy or fun time.....I was only 16 when I had Jake, then 2 early m/c, Logan was sick, and well with Chloe no one was happy cause I had not been with her father for very long...so nope never got to tell family in a fun way. That would be cool though.
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« Reply #8 on: July 29, 2010, 01:09:24 PM »

For Eli no one knew we were trying, we got his parents and my parents together and met at the 99 restaurant, it had just barely opened so we were like, yeah come down and try it out with us lol Well, while we were waiting for our table we were sitting outside and I gave them each a little package to unwrap and they were bibs that said "I love my Grandma/Grandpa" and they all freaked out laughing and crying lol It was cool!

The second time when I was like 6 weeks I had gone to my mom's to either drop Eli off or pick him up and both my parents were there. I think I'd stayed after work and had dinner. Anyway, I tried to get Eli to say that there was a baby in mommy's belly lol He did try but they didn't fully understand him, so I had to repeat it, they were pretty shocked lol I think Eric told his parents over the phone. Everyone else I mostly just let other people spread the word.
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« Reply #9 on: July 29, 2010, 01:20:05 PM »

Avery was a surprise pregnancy and I was afraid to tell my mom b/c Brian and I weren't together all that long and we weren't married. I finally just blurted it out and she was happy b/c she liked Brian and thought we were good for each other. Brian told his mom via phone and I don't think she was as happy but she didn't know me very well at that point. She warmed up to it quickly, though.

With Jaret the knew we were trying. I got pregnant with him quickly so I don't think everyone expected me to be pregnant so soon. We got Avery a big sister t-shirt and took her to my parents' for a visit to tell them.

As for the sex, we just told everyone when we knew. For Jaret, my mom was at the ultrasound with me. They checked the sex and told me before she came into the room but it was written all over my face when she came in and she knew immediately it was a boy b/c I really, really, really wanted him to be a boy.  lol
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« Reply #10 on: July 29, 2010, 01:22:55 PM »

Oh yeah the sex we just told everyone. My mom came with me for Eli's u/s actually. Otherwise we just phoned people and showed everyone who would look the pictures lmao
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